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obee Turns Self-Doubt Into Jet Fuel on the Club-Ready Anthem “DON’T STOP ME”

  • Writer: Jennifer Gurton
    Jennifer Gurton
  • 11 minutes ago
  • 5 min read

There’s a specific kind of dance record that doesn’t just want you moving, it wants you surviving. obee’s new single “DON’T STOP ME” lives in that lane. It’s a house-pop release built for dark rooms and flashing lights, but emotionally it reads like a diary entry written in all caps. This isn’t escapism. It’s confrontation disguised as a banger.

The Vermont-born producer, real name Owen Barclay, has always chased what he calls heart-string euphoria, and you can hear that mission in every layer of the track. The production is clean and deliberate: pulsing bass, glossy synth lines, and a drop engineered to feel like a release valve. When the beat hits, it doesn’t explode so much as lift. It’s the sound of tension turning into forward motion. You don’t just dance to it, you exhale into it.

Lyrically, “DON’T STOP ME” is a middle finger aimed at gaslighting, comparison culture, and the creeping doubt that shows up right when life is finally going well. obee frames the song as an intentional act of self-preservation, a way to metabolize old toxicity and the residue it leaves on confidence. There’s a maturity here that separates the track from generic motivational dance pop. He’s not pretending the scars aren’t there. He’s dancing with them.

That emotional honesty pairs perfectly with his DIY ethos. obee writes, produces, and engineers his own work, and the control shows. The song feels tightly wound but never sterile, polished without losing its pulse. You can trace the lineage from his early electronic influences and New York club energy, but the record doesn’t feel nostalgic. It feels current, like a snapshot of late-twenties pressure translated into sound.

What makes “DON’T STOP ME” stick is its dual purpose. It functions as a club weapon and a personal mantra. It’s for anyone staring down opposition, whether that’s industry gatekeeping, past relationships, or their own internal critic. obee isn’t selling fantasy. He’s offering momentum. The track doesn’t promise everything will work out. It promises you can keep going anyway, and sometimes that’s the more powerful message.



You’ve described “DON’T STOP ME” as an intentional act of self-gaslighting to fight doubt. When you’re in the studio, how do you tell the difference between healthy confidence and just trying to outrun your insecurities?

I’ve been doing this for a little over 10 years, it just took a lot of practice to be vulnerable. Developing a conscious voice of reason has helped me in process, and being super critical of what I write. Asking myself if I’m really being honest. I think a part of music, no matter how honest we are, is “escaping”. A lot of art is rooted in escapism. With that said, every song I write is a healing process as well. A lot of times I do a brain puke into my notebook at the start of a song, and then I hash out and rewrite like an insane person. 


The track turns past relationship toxicity into dance-floor fuel. Was it harder to write from a healed place looking back, or would this song have sounded different if you wrote it in the middle of the chaos?


Mmm. I like this question. I think it definitely would’ve been harder to write this song amid some of the chaos I was going through years ago. I wasn’t as skilled a writer and I didn’t have as much agency over my work. I also think reflection and time helps process things, and allows us to speak with more wisdom on what hurts us. I think if I wrote this song back then, it would’ve felt more anguish-inducing and targeted. I wrote this from a place of thinking of my audience and other people who need this song, versus getting back at someone or a group of people. 

You handle your own production, engineering, and writing. Does total creative control feel empowering, or does it sometimes amplify the pressure to prove yourself? Both things for sure. I’m a control freak when it comes to my music and art. This industry can be shady. I do feel a lot of pressure for sure - at first it was super overwhelming. I’ve sort of gotten into a rhythm with the work though, and once you do it enough it doesn’t feel like weight - it just excites me. I love the process so much. The hurdles and challenges, the victories. It’s so satisfying building the obee world myself - that’s sort of how I think of it, world-building. My work feels way more authentic too knowing I made everything myself. So much of the industry is fake and plastic, I want my stuff to be an amalgamation of my blood sweat and tears. 

A lot of your music chases euphoria but still carries emotional weight. Do you think dance music today avoids vulnerability too much, or is the scene finally opening up to more honest storytelling?

I love this, because I ask myself this question a lot. There’s so much music coming out today, it’s hard to say. I think dance music is rooted in freeing people and creating safe spaces for people to feel vulnerable and dance, set their soul free, connect. I can’t really hate on dance music. Despite a lot of the stuff I hear on social media having one liners that can feel stale, those lyrics and production still can come from very vulnerable places. Only the artist really knows. I don’t know, people are smart. You can tell when a song is written without much emotional thought. Music’s interesting, something that can feel dull and bland to an audiophile, can resonate with millions of people around the world and be a chart topper. To answer your question, I think the scene has always been open to vulnerable storytelling. Fred again is a great example of that. Some of my favorite songs today are instrumentals and have no lyrical content, and they feel more narrative than some songs that are lyrically thick. I think it just depends on the listener. 


If someone listens to “DON’T STOP ME” on their worst day, what do you want it to interrupt: their thoughts, their habits, or the way they see themselves?


Hmm. Gosh, I mean I hope it doesn't interrupt too much haha. I'd say a bit of everything. I just hope it strikes a chord. The walls they've put up preventing them from doing something they've always wanted to do. I hope it interrupts their voice of fear and doubt. I think we all kind of have that. I want the song to hit at people's energy and boost that, act as a sort of shield against the outside forces that distract us and bring us down. I want it to remind people of who they are and have always been... and to keep f*cking dancing. I sort of think of it as Mufasa's voice in the Lion King when he's talking to Simba on his journey... I love that scene. "Remember who you are".

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