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Something Wilder Finds Freedom in Reinvention on Her Self-Titled EP

  • Writer: Victoria Pfeifer
    Victoria Pfeifer
  • 3 hours ago
  • 4 min read

Some artists spend their careers chasing reinvention. Lauren Wilder became it.


The Los Angeles-based singer-songwriter and front woman, Something Wilder arrives with her self-titled debut EP, a collection rooted in second chances, self-discovery, and the courage to abandon expectations that no longer fit. Drawing inspiration from artists like Lucinda Williams, Tom Petty, and The Wallflowers, Wilder blends classic Americana influences with deeply personal storytelling to create a project that feels both timeless and refreshingly honest.


What makes Something Wilder particularly compelling is the perspective behind it. Wilder learned to play guitar at 38, got sober, underwent a profound personal transformation, and started a band at 44. Those experiences aren't simply part of her biography; they're woven into the DNA of every song on the record.


Lead single "Something to Prove" sets the tone immediately. Rather than seeking validation from others, the song becomes a declaration of self-trust and personal conviction. It's about finding your voice, choosing yourself, and refusing to settle for a life that no longer aligns with who you are becoming.


Elsewhere, "Stained Glass Girl" emerges as one of the EP's most moving moments. Reflecting on healing, sobriety, and rebuilding a sense of self later in life, the song embraces the idea that our broken pieces can ultimately form something beautiful. There's wisdom in its perspective, but never self-congratulation.


"Blue" explores a different emotional terrain, examining the desire to rescue people who seem lost or hurting. Wilder approaches the subject with honesty, acknowledging the difficult truth that no matter how much we care for someone, we cannot save another person from themselves.


The EP closes with "The Day LA Has Winters," a poignant meditation on acceptance and letting go. Using Los Angeles' famously warm climate as a metaphor for an impossible longing, the song finds freedom in releasing what was never meant to be. It's a fitting conclusion to a project centered on growth, resilience, and transformation.


Throughout Something Wilder, Wilder writes with the confidence of someone who has lived enough life to know that personal growth rarely follows a straight path. The result is a debut EP filled with sincerity, hard-earned wisdom, and a refreshing sense of possibility.


Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is choose yourself. Something Wilder is a reminder that it's never too late to start over.



You learned to play guitar at 38, got sober, and started a band at 44. How have those experiences changed the way you think about timing, ambition, and what it means to pursue a creative life?


As long as you have air in your lungs, it’s never too late to express and create. A breakup, a move, or a disappointment can be an unexpected catalyst. It’s always the heavy stuff that carries the most kinetic energy. That energy doesn’t care what age you are; it’ll propel you forward towards your goals if you let it.


The self-titled EP, Something Wilder, feels rooted in self-discovery and personal transformation. At what point did you stop trying to prove yourself to others and start choosing yourself instead?


Once I got sober. The program's ethos focuses on avoiding the urge to fix other people, places, or things. Keep your side of the street clean. So, I just started living and loving my side more. I got more comfortable with disappointing people and saying no if it meant compromising myself. I also did a relentless amount of therapy, including therapy-assisted ketamine, and meditation to get really clear in there.


"Stained Glass Girl" explores the idea that healing can transform broken pieces into something beautiful. Looking back, what parts of your own story were the most difficult to embrace as part of that larger picture?


Along the way, the hardest to reconcile was depression. Creativity is the farthest thing from your mind when you’re depressed. I knew I had more inside me, dying to get out. I was surviving for so long and couldn’t understand why. I knew there was more to life, but despite meds and traditional therapy, I couldn’t shake it. Internal Family Systems and ketamine were my breakthrough. Now I could start to see and work through the parts. Sometimes you need a side door to see the bigger picture.


Several songs on the EP deal with letting go, whether it's trying to save someone in "Blue" or releasing an impossible longing in "The Day LA Has Winters." What role has surrender played in your personal growth over the last few years?


Well, certainly a lot. Had to see through a lot of ghosts there, even still, they’re a little grippy sometimes, mostly wanting to help others. It’s in my marrow. But I can’t save people, there’s a difference. So, I use the tools to reconnect to myself, ease back, and let go. That gets easier over time. Relationships get down a few layers, don’t they? It’s what we write songs about to work it through!


This project feels deeply rooted in second chances and reinvention. If someone is standing at the edge of a major life change but is afraid it's too late, what do you hope Something Wilder helps them realize?


If you can dig deep, be willing to break from expectations, and take a chance on yourself, you’ll find something truer, something wilder on the path to reinvention. Letting go and having the audacity to make a change, no matter how small, carries momentum to the next thing. If you know you need a reboot, find out what makes you weird, wild, and alive. If you liked it as a kid, odds are it’s been following you ever since, just waiting for you to say yes.

 
 
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